Your emotions are intense now, but they won’t be forever.Within a couple years, if not before, you’ll discover that the Cinderella or Price Charming you’re in love with isn’t quite as wonderful or perfect as you think.Most likely your desire is not to hurt the person you’re married to, but rather to live in this new level of love that you never knew existed.
Your desire is (There may be an exception to that if you feel that your spouse has been unkind or hurtful.
If so, that degree of negativity toward your spouse probably increased its intensity after your affair began.) You have four potential paths before you: 1. Short-term consequences and long-term consequences. If you choose short-term, you may decide to end your marriage for your lover.
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Relationship affairs – as opposed to the one-night-stand type of affairs that are wholly about sex and not at all about relationship – usually find root in a person’s feeling unloved, unaccepted, disliked, and/or disrespected.
That doesn’t mean that the person necessarily went looking for affirmation and validation from someone else.
Perhaps you’ve gone further and the relationship has turned physical.
It may be difficult for you to know exactly how you got into this situation.
They would look deeper into their hearts to see that their beliefs and values are part of their very identity and realize that to live in contradiction to them would lead them to become someone quite different than they were.