’ It’s the same with platonic friends too – while working in Sri Lanka, my closest friend was nine years younger than me, and it wasn’t a problem.
She was beautiful, intelligent, funny, cool, and a sexual dynamo. Despite what my original misgivings, it turned out to be a smart decision.
Partly because I was terrified of losing her, but also because I wanted to see just how it would play out.
I look young for my age and I act young for my age, so why should I feel ashamed (or even surprised) that I’m attracted to guys a few years younger than me?
And it works both ways – if you’re mature for your age, then you’ll naturally be attracted to older men.
You’ll have more freedom to do what you want, when you want, and be able to see her when you want to, rather than when she calls. If you’re also seeing other people, it won’t matter if she can’t see you because you’ll have other things to occupy your time with.
As neediness is one of the biggest relationships killers, this is a HUGE plus.
There are too many to cover here, but here are the 4 top reasons why you MUST encourage the girls you’re dating to see other guys: Allowing her to see other guys gives you the space to see other girls.
This means you go out, flirt and play, make out, muck around, and not even think twice about getting in trouble. If she’s seeing other guys, it means she’ll be far less needy and demanding.
‘He probably wants to wait five years for that kind of thing, maybe even longer.
‘Which then means there’s a weird time when a girl is like I NEED to have kids.
The first guy I properly dated was exactly a year younger than me (we shared the same birthday, I thought it was meant to be) and the last guy I dated was four years younger than me. ) and thought I’d increase my age limit to 39 to see if there were any silver foxes about. You could smell the desperation through the phone – it was like they had their mum breathing down their necks asking for grandkids.