There is a mixture of those who have old fashion idea of what a man’s/woman’s role should be, while others are more demanding in their ‘rights’. Women can now be found as Pastors and leaders in many congregations.Does a man open a door for a woman, or is that showing her that he thinks she is weak? You guess wrong and the date can quickly turn sour. I am hopeful that most women have found this a blessing and release, but I have some of these women writing to me saying that being in such leadership roles appears to intimidate men and they are not considered for dates. Ministries like Joyce Meyer’s have visibly changed how many consider their roles in dating and marriage.
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I know that I could go on, but the point that I would like to make is that our world has and is changing.
As we become older, we cannot help but incorporate what has and is happening to us into our lives.
Attend services at churches other than your own to meet other Christian singles.
Church fellowship gatherings after Sunday services provide a great way to meet prospective dates in a safe Christian environment.
You might be tempted to date other members of your church, which might be a bad idea.
If things don't go well between the two of you, it could lead to problems and discomfort at church every Sunday.
Your more mature age allows you to foresee the consequences of certain patterns in others.
By this age, you have spent several years building up a stockpile of considerations from your previous disappointments as well as the disappointments of others in your life that you have observed. Perhaps some friends or family enjoyed great success in their relationships and you ‘grabbed’ their standards, etc. Today, we can turn on a radio or TV and find out more than we need to know about the personal lives of so many others.
Things came relatively easily and you did not worry about tomorrow, and most certainly not today.